Saturday, March 11, 2006
Path to Happiness- part 2
One project at a time:
There is tremendous satisfaction in doing something well. And it is really difficult to do many things well all at once. I am not a great multi-tasker though I've learned to be better at it. In general my best performance comes when I'm focused on one major life project at a time. In recent years it has been all about my career. Mopey and I have been money-making machines. As we're reaching our financial goals, I have begun to look around for other things to concentrate on.
Life projects are major lifetime accomplishments: having children, homeownership, a career. In our modern era we can choose to do all of these things. I argue though that happiness doesn't come when you try to do all of these things at once. It's too difficult. People don't get enough sleep or quality time with a spouse or a chance to open their minds by reading for instance when they work full time and try to have children and buy a house that needs endless work done on it all at the same time.
There is tremendous satisfaction in doing something well. And it is really difficult to do many things well all at once. I am not a great multi-tasker though I've learned to be better at it. In general my best performance comes when I'm focused on one major life project at a time. In recent years it has been all about my career. Mopey and I have been money-making machines. As we're reaching our financial goals, I have begun to look around for other things to concentrate on.
Life projects are major lifetime accomplishments: having children, homeownership, a career. In our modern era we can choose to do all of these things. I argue though that happiness doesn't come when you try to do all of these things at once. It's too difficult. People don't get enough sleep or quality time with a spouse or a chance to open their minds by reading for instance when they work full time and try to have children and buy a house that needs endless work done on it all at the same time.